From my wonderings…What do you like about being male?
It has been over a year since i have posted. Many factors including months of physiotherapy after a car accident in November 2009 made it difficult to find the emotional space to write. 2011 is upon us and its time to begin looking ahead as well as reflect on the past year. One recent experience I had was when I participated in a “Mens only consultation”Equality and HIV Men’s Perspective’ which was held November 30, 2010 at the Medallion Hall Hotel, Kingston, Jamaica. “A male only space” was created which excluded women. It was interesting to be part of a group of 50 Jamaican man who came from a cross section of the society. It was interesting to both participate and observe the process. I was quiet for the most part as I took it all in. The moderator challenged us to be aware that there were many different types of men in the space some reserved, others expressive with loud voices, others spoke from a whisper but non the less each had a place and a voice. The question was asked “what do you like about being a man? the Jamaican male psyche found opportunity for expression. This has prompted me to ask my male readers what do you like about being a man. I look forward to hearing what the responses will be . I know your going to ask what did the guys in the session share…..i can only tell you what i shared….i enjoyed being a father….. so this is a quick post to begin the process of sharing again. Happy New year when it comes…you will hear more of my ponderings and my wonderings! walk good till next time.
